Wednesday, July 18, 2012

July 10-13: Nicaraguan Hospitality


I apologize for my laziness at updating my blog lately. I have been pretty busy, but I am going to try much harder to update it every few days. I only have a little time left and a lot left to do. I want to keep everyone updated.

Tuesday

Since Monday was so crazy with everyone being in Managua and running errands, the weekly planning meeting was pushed back to Tuesday. The whole team planned for the week in the morning and then was on their own for the afternoon. I ended up being pretty unproductive because I had to unpack from the weekend trip and repack to go back to the host family for the week. I hate bringing four days’ worth of dirty clothes back for my host mom to wash. Therefore, I strategically picked out the articles of clothing that would be the most difficult for me to wash (like jeans and shirts with stains) to take back. They are much more skilled at washing clothes by hand than I am. I have already decided that most of my clothes will not be making the journey back to the US due to my poor washing skills.

Wednesday

I finally completed my final biodigestor stove test after nearly 6 weeks! There were only three but with so many “learning experiences” (ie failures), it took MUCH longer than what I had expected. However, I am happy with the data that I have gotten out of the tests. I have only done the simple calculations, but I believe I have been successful. I had to make so many alterations to the standard testing procedure that my results will never be accepted into a scientific journal (such as using a lid on the pot), but the data is definitely good enough to be used for grants and promotion for EOS after more analysis has been run. This is the real goal of the team here, so I am incredibly happy to have success in the end!

Thursday

This was a day that ended up getting away from me. I got up in the morning and helped my host family make tortillas in the morning. It is actually very difficult. They mill the corn to make a flour and make a dough from it. Then, without ever measuring, manage tto pull out the exact amount of dough to make a perfectly sized tortilla. Then, they use their hands to form the round flat shape, which I found to be very difficult. I made three. The first was a disaster and my host mom totally re-did it for me. The second one was better but the amount of dough was not consistent across it, so she had to fix it so it would cook evenly. The third one was better but the edges had to be cleaned up. I chatted with a lot of the employees quite a bit about their families, Nicaragua, etc., so I didn’t actually get a lot accomplished. I learned a lot about a lot of different topics but have nothing tangible to show.

Friday

Friday was a pretty big day for me. I completed my final wood stove test in the morning. It went very smoothly with very little smoke like last time. I also walked away with no burns and having inhaled very little smoke. My host family said I did a much better job with handling the fire. It really takes experience. Even though I have been around camp fires and such and understand fire, it means nearly nothing. Wood stoves are very difficult to work with, and I have a lot of respect for all the women all around the world who have to work with one every day. I should also add that I never actually started the fire due since I wanted consistency in the results. I had to handle and weigh hot coals and burning wood at several points during the test. It creates a lot of excess smoke and makes it difficult to see and breath.

There was a death in my host family early in the week. In the Nicaraguan Catholic culture there is a ten day wake culminating in a celebration of life “party”. I was unable to determine exactly who in the family died. It was a distant relative, but they lived in Sabana Larga, where most of the town is related. The death put me in an awkward position. My family was participating in church services every day, and since there were a lot of people coming and going through the house every day in order to carry the cross and candles from my family’s home alter to the church in the morning and night. It is kind of like a parade where everyone sings while carrying everything. It is awkward because my family is not used to having a foreigner in their house, and I felt like a gawker.

Therefore, since I finished my testing and had already overstayed my intended 4 weeks by at least 2 weeks, I told my family I would be moving back to the office. What I did not was how upset my host mother became by this. She started to cry and didn’t want me leave. She told me that they would keep my room and bed, so that I could come back whenever I wanted to stay the night. Then, when I attempted to pay her (since she had cooked for me every day, provided me with my own room, and done my laundry), she downright refused. Only when I told her how important it was to me did she finally take it.

The whole thing was very emotional. I was also crying and second guessing my decision. I thought that they would be somewhat relieved to see me go since they were so busy, and even though I try, I am zero help. I had also well overstayed my intended 4 weeks there. It really made me realize how deep Nicaraguan hospitality goes. I was always given the most amount of food even though I told them there was no way I could finish it all. They also always gave me the best cuts of meat and fresh fruit drinks. Greg had a great analogy.

In the United States, if I showed up at someone’s house to get ready to go to a party, but didn’t have anything to wear; I would be given a shirt that my friend barely wears. However, in Nicaragua, I would be given their best shirt. They would want me to show up in their best shirt; probably the one that they were going to wear.

After a very tearful goodbye, with promises to visit before I leave, I grabbed a bus for San Isidro. All I did was enter data into my computer for the final water boiling test. Then, we threw together a “family dinner” of sorts. Denis (with a little help from me) made some pasta with sauce made from tomatoes, ketchup, and random spice with some boiled eggs stuffed with guacamole. We also had some cooked banana on the side. For $2 (it was the food we had laying around in the kitchen), the dinner fed the 8 people who were still in the office at around 7pm. It was really great.

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